My hub is from California so last year was the first time he's ever been to WDW. I did all the planning, FPs, ADRs, did all the packing and literally all he had to do was show up and stand in the line I told him to. He had a great time (minus the fact we had 11 month old twins with us in a very hot April last year!) I have not involved him in any of the anxiety and stress of this year's madness. I stay calm on the outside and slightly exploding on the inside so that I don't freak him out enough to want to cancel our APs lol.