Thank you! The worst is everyone who said "Oh I had one and now I have 2 (or 3) kids." I hate to say it but there are no guarantees that we will have a healthy child. I guess I am thinking too negatively.
When I was going thru this stuff, I needed time to grieve. Time it seemed noone wanted to allow me. So, I will say this. When the time comes you want to hear encouraging stories of life after miscarriage, feel free to pm me, if you would like. For now, my advice is to be gentle with yourself. Grief is personal & real.