It really depends on the person. The messages in both are good. They hit people differently. And I think it depends on what’s going on in your life at the time, too.
I think many people felt deep connections to Wishes. It was hopeful for times of despair. When you’re running on empty and have nothing left. Wishes was particularly emotional for me, as it was running as I was going through a very difficult time. I know many on here wished for specific things during that show too - there used to be a thread about it way back, if I recall. People who were terminally ill, going through incredibly difficult times, etc. wished on those fireworks.
Everyone is emotionally tied to things for different reasons based on what’s happening in their life. I like HEA. I tear up during go the distance and when the full choir chimes in toward the end. But I don’t like projections. I miss the picture perfect beauty of the traditional castle framed by fireworks. I don’t like Cinderella castle used as a movie screen. That’s just my aesthetic preference. I like the HEA music and fireworks. I am becoming emotionally tied to it because HEA is the show my kids are growing up with. I know I will look back on it fondly.
I think these shows hit people differently. They connect to them emotionally based on many factors and it’s impossible to say which one is “best.” It’s totally subjective.