I think this is a common theme--that everyone thinks the wife knows or is deliberately fooling herself because to everyone else, it's obvious. However, sometimes the wife doesn't know and doesn't even suspect. There could be innumerable reasons for this, but the one that comes immediately to mind is that the husband is a convincing, practiced, consummate liar. There's a reason I know about this.The thing is, she probably already knows. However, if you bring it up, she has to face it directly and she likely won’t like that. People are complicated.
Be prepared for your friend to blame you and be mad at you for telling her. I know of a 45 year friendship that was ruined because one friend told the other that her husband was cheating on her. Friend stayed with cheating husband and cut “friend since kindergarten” out of her life.
If the friend knew that husband had already cheated on her and she stayed anyway, I would keep my mouth shut!
I'd go up to husband at work tomorrow and say "wow I didn't know you and (wife) were separated". I'm sorry to hear that. See what his response is.
A person in a happy marriage just doesn't decide to go out and cheat on their spouse. There are issues in their marriage that obviously your good friend has not told you about. So I'm not sure I'd say something to her.
Be prepared for your friend to blame you and be mad at you for telling her. I know of a 45 year friendship that was ruined because one friend told the other that her husband was cheating on her. Friend stayed with cheating husband and cut “friend since kindergarten” out of her life.
If the friend knew that husband had already cheated on her and she stayed anyway, I would keep my mouth shut!
If the friend knew that husband had already cheated on her and she stayed anyway, I would keep my mouth shut!
I work with one of my good friends husband, I have known him longer then her. He was a player before the 2 of them got married, she knows this.
I know that he had an affair about 2 years ago. He is in his mid 60s and she was 30!
Last week my family went out to dinner and I saw him, with another woman, his hands were all over her, he was even grabbing her ***. We were there a good 20 minutes before he noticed us, it was so disgusting! He came over and said hi he was so nervous.
Idk what to do? Ignore this? Forget I saw it? Tell her?
honestly I want to forget I know this stuff but I feel guilty because
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