I personally think Heath's performance was the best...
we saw it last night, my sis and law and I...
as for the comment above about someone laughing behind you, can I just say honestly from a Iowa girl who really has had no real lif exposure to the sex scenes in the movie, it is like think about how you act when you are 10 and you see and girl and boy kissing and you laugh and giggle, ya know??? Sometimes we have reactions to things and I do not think it is bad to say you felt uneasy about something and then REALLY go in depth, in your soul as I have been doing since the movie and ask myself "why?" This is how we learn acceptance and love for others...I do not know the right word for how I felt about some scenes but I am pretty sure what I felt was judgemental and I have been trying to work on that a LOT!!! I just have so many unanswered questions about the movie, not about the gay part of the movie but about all of the "hidden deeper secret meanings" that we learn in college lit class...I would love to go over this story with an educated professional and figure it all out...
it was a movie that left us deep in thought...and questioning myself in acceptance and tolerance....for the better
one thing my sil and I discussed was how it seems easier to see a gay woman couple than a gay man couple and how that was not right at all...
see what I mean by questioning??