imbatman
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Dec 29, 2017
This. Cousin's mom (DH's aunt) is living in the house while the trust pays for it. Grandma made sure for the last several years of her life that everything would go smoothly after she passed. Well...it never does. Out of town cousins showed up for the service and LITERALLY stole stuff from the house, including things that belonged to my DH's deceased father. It was sick and heartbreaking. Maybe this is why cousin is dragging her feet. Or who knows. I'm ready to wash my hands of all of the nonsense and so is DH.We went through this too when my FIL died, except that dh’s sister (and executor) was spending FIL’s $ and living in his home. Things didn’t get rolling until over a year after his death when one of dh’s brothers threatened to sue.
It wasn’t my family and didn’t want to add to dh’s turmoil so I stayed out of it. It all worked out in the end. The house sold in a week.
Anyhoo, thanks for letting me vent. Unfortunate business.
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