Hi! We had an intimate wedding, and used Trumpet Voluntary for the groom & best man. The MOH walked in to Canon in D, and I entered to the traditional Bridal March. I think that we recessed to the Hornpipe from Handel's Water Music.
About your coordinator, I don't know if you're on the Disneymooners group or not, but they have recently reorganized the FTW department. They don't have FTW offices any more; each coordinator is now attached to a particular convention center. I think that our coordinator, Lynn McKitrick, is now at the Yacht Club, but don't quote me on that. I have heard a lot of the DM brides complain that the service has gone down significantly, since the department's reorganization...
Our experiences with FTW weren't wonderful, until we got Lynn McKitrick. Our first coordinator was Kirsten Wallace, who was sweet but didn't really answer our questions or give us any new ideas. Then we were transferred to Brad Crews, b/c Kirsten realized that her day off was Monday, and our wedding was on a Monday. Brad was absolutely horrible - he left FTW, and that's enough said about him. If you can't say something nice... But Lynn is awesome!
I do know that their attention to you will increase, the closer you get to your date. The DM list is great, since the couples there always have an answer for you, especially at the beginning of the planning process, when you're not a top priority for your EM.
Cheers!
Heather W