Colleen A.
<font color=green>Disney Planning Maniac!<br><font
- Joined
- Sep 23, 1999
3 years ago, my sister's son and his 1 yr old son, moved back home after the relationship with the boy's mother fell apart. My sister has basically raised her grandson since then, even though her son lived home, she was the primary caregiver. She knew her son had mega bills after the split so she NEVER asked for a dime to help with the increased grocery, electric and water bills. She wanted him to get back on his feet. As his show of appreciation, he announced on New Years Day that he and his new girlfriend had found an apartment and would be moving in about 3 weeks. She had no idea they were even thinking about this! That would of had them moving this weekend. Well, he surprised her again Saturday and moved out early. Her grandson was with his mother for the weekend so she has not had the chance to 'say goodbye'. She was raising him as if he were her own. She sounded so upset last night!
Granted, I know the boy is not her son, but I think her own son should of taken his mother's feelings into consideration and let him know where the relationship was heading. To leave so suddenly only lead to heartache. His son was so close to my sister that when she would go away on vacation, he would cry and want her home. That was only for a weekend! Imagine how he is going to feel when his 'home' is gone! It sounds my nephew is more concerned with 'his' life than his son's!
Sorry for the rant....just needed to get this off my chest!
Granted, I know the boy is not her son, but I think her own son should of taken his mother's feelings into consideration and let him know where the relationship was heading. To leave so suddenly only lead to heartache. His son was so close to my sister that when she would go away on vacation, he would cry and want her home. That was only for a weekend! Imagine how he is going to feel when his 'home' is gone! It sounds my nephew is more concerned with 'his' life than his son's!
Sorry for the rant....just needed to get this off my chest!