Do you have a Groupon membership (I have one at $5/month)? It gives 25% off any deal, so you can make out buying them 1 at a time...and it works on every deal, even ones that don't normally take any discounts...
For example, (I just tested this)...(it may also work with regular promo codes, but I know they limit those to 3x (although you and your husband could each buy when promos come out))...
You can buy the 3 attraction pass for Sightseeing Pass Orlando
https://www.groupon.com/deals/the-sightseeing-pass-orlando for $51.75/person...
Then, I'd do the Pirate Dinner Adventure, and then either the Escape Game Orlando/Gatorland/Wonderworks/Titanic/Helicopter Tour...some combo of them based on interest. Now, this pass is apparently more of a pain to use and lists how you have to use it for each attraction, but cost vs annoyance when price matters...well, I'd take the annoyance
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PS - Those passes are still a deal even if you can't discount them - I would actually go to their main website to see if they are offering deals if Groupon ones don't work...
I'd also look at Seaworld passes, b/c they tend to provide a lot of bang for the buck, especially around Christmas
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Here's the link
https://seaworld.com/orlando/tickets-b/
If it were me, with 3 practical teens, I'd do the 3 day passes with the $20/day all day included dine...so, your full costs (except parking) are covered in the day...meals can add up as much as park tickets, and $190/person (or $63.33/day to eat and play all day) is my normal price point for fun
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And if you skip Seaworld as too pricey, I'd go with the 5 attraction pass (although Go City also has passes you could look at
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Remember, Bonnet Creek has multiple pools with lazy rivers, mini golf, and resort activities, so you don't need to fill full days...you just need something fun for teens to get up for everyday
...you could set a very low budget of $200/person for fun for the 9 days (so 1/2 of what tickets would cost you in Disney for 4 days) and see how far it goes hitting "other Florida" deals...it could be a fun game for the fam to plan
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