J & T's Wishes Wedding 5/5/12 SB/SBP/BW *Wedding & Aulani HM TR Complete!*

[donald&daisy]

Yay!!! So exciting!! I love it on you....very flattering. You look fab and its going to look even better when its taken in. Woohoo!!

 

[DisneyEverAfter]

LOVE your dress Tricia! & the invites are awesome! Love it all~

 

[BethieTink]

Tricia,

You look amazing! Love all the ideas. Can't wait to see it when it is done. You are getting so close now.

 

[elleinad16]

Omg, Tricia, it's SOOOO pretty! I love it!

(And now I have that song stuck in my head, hahah "I work out" / "animal print pants, outta control" )

 

[enchantedream88]

(And now I have that song stuck in my head, hahah "I work out" / "animal print pants, outta control" )

Same here!

 

[CDsSleepingBeauty]

Your dress is so pretty! I it! Are you going to leave your train down on the beach? As messy as the sand may be, I think I'm going to leave mine down.

 

[yourgypsy]

Oh, twin, you look SO beautiful!

(And now that song is in my head, dammit!)

 

[Jilian]

It looks great on you, very flattering! I think it will look great with a little bling too. Congrats on paying it off!

 

[Dream426]

Your dress is beautiful. I love it. You look great in it.

 

[DoomBuggy0922]

Oh, you look beautifullllll!!! Very classy and a little bit of sexy. And I agree: I think a simple veil will just be perfect with it.

 

[tric8783]

Your dress is STUNNING! Love it!

Wow you look beautiful. Can't wait to see the bit of bling you add to it to give it just that something more. Congrats on having your gown paid off.

Yay!!! So exciting!! I love it on you....very flattering. You look fab and its going to look even better when its taken in. Woohoo!!

LOVE your dress Tricia! & the invites are awesome! Love it all~

Tricia,

You look amazing! Love all the ideas. Can't wait to see it when it is done. You are getting so close now.

Omg, Tricia, it's SOOOO pretty! I love it!

(And now I have that song stuck in my head, hahah "I work out" / "animal print pants, outta control" )

Same here!

Your dress is so pretty! I it! Are you going to leave your train down on the beach? As messy as the sand may be, I think I'm going to leave mine down.

Oh, twin, you look SO beautiful!

(And now that song is in my head, dammit!)

It looks great on you, very flattering! I think it will look great with a little bling too. Congrats on paying it off!

Your dress is beautiful. I love it. You look great in it.

Oh, you look beautifullllll!!! Very classy and a little bit of sexy. And I agree: I think a simple veil will just be perfect with it.

You girls do know how to make a girl feel the Thank you Thank you Thank you!!! I'm so excited to put it on again!! And yes, that song is constantly stuck in my head... and paid in full is the best feeling!! Photographers will be paid in full on the 13th (getting my bonus from work- yippeee!). Only 35 days til our final payment to Disney! I can't believe we area 65 days away!!!

 

[2dogmom]

Your dress is absolutely beautiful!!!

 

[tric8783]

Your dress is absolutely beautiful!!!

Thank you!!


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Morgan: Yes, I am going to keep it down on the beach. I am thinking about trashing my dress after the reception but haven't decided yet! I honestly did not remember the train being as long as it is, maybe with hemming it will be less. I really liked it originally because it didn't have a long train. I could barely get around that little dressing room with the train it has, hahaha I kept stepping on myself (though it's clearly also way too long so I'm sure that didn't help. lol)

 

[MrsDuck]

Wow! I love how simple but gorgeous and elegant your dress is! Just beautiful! And, it looks great on you!

 

[tinydancr06]

Wow! Your dress is so beautiful and flattering! Super cute share site cards, too. I totally forgot about those so I'm glad you're on top of things

 

[virtuous girl]

I LOVE UR DRESS! Simple yet classy... i think a little bling will add that special touch

 

[tric8783]

Wow! I love how simple but gorgeous and elegant your dress is! Just beautiful! And, it looks great on you!

Wow! Your dress is so beautiful and flattering! Super cute share site cards, too. I totally forgot about those so I'm glad you're on top of things

I LOVE UR DRESS! Simple yet classy... i think a little bling will add that special touch

Thanks ladies!!

 

[tric8783]

Alright ladies. We are 2 months away and I'm freaking out!! Granted I've been freaking out, but today topped the cake. lol

1 week ago today, invitations went out. We sent 50 something and we've gotten back 12 so far. My mom got a call from a "relative" thats not blood related last week. My mom's mom passed when she was 20, so I have a "Grandma" that treated my mom like her daughter. We were close when I was little, but haven't seen her in probably 15 years or talked to her, my mom still keeps in touch, she retired down to FL (doesn't have her license and never been on a plane) so we invited her to come, as well as her son (who I don't recall ever meeting) but so that he would drive her. They called my mom to tell her they were "offended" the son's wife was not on the invitation... Really??? I'm glad this lady wants to come to my wedding, she has no IDEA who I even am, I didn't even know this son was married!!!

THEN at dinner last night, Josh's mom tells me she got a call from the family friend that Josh got my ring from/jeweler, asking where her invitation was.... Uhhh she wasn't ever on the list??? So his mom said she didn't know what to tell her, and told her she wasn't sure if the invites went out yet. She then proceeded to tell me she is a good family friend and really should be invited, but that she doesn't have the money to come. Why would she be looking for her invitation if she didn't have the money to come, is she in a hurry to reply no?? Josh told me he'd talk to his mom and not to send one to her just yet. We are trying to make our numbers SMALLER not BIGGER.... our parents have both contributed all they are giving and now the rest is on us...don't try to add people now that we're paying. ughhh

His best man also told my sister his stag was going be on 3/31. I strategically wanted my shower to be the same weekend so that I would be occupied, and the stag before our 30 day mark so that we could use the money raised at the stag towards the wedding. Yesterday I worked on the inserts for the invitations, labels etc with my sister and the invitations themselves should be coming today to her house. I get an email this morning that the best man sent out to like 60 people to "spread the word" that his stag is 4/21.... uhhh what happened to 3/31???? Needless to say I don't want to be a B about it, but I am freaking out. A. I told all my girlfriends to bring their boyfriends and husbands taht weekend so they could go to the stag while the girls prepped for the shower, B. Now we can't use those funds towards our final payment, and C. WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF

My Monday is off to a very bad start. I don't want to be bratty or bride-zilla-y, I just had visions for my wedding events and I feel like they're all slowly drifting farther and farther away, and out of my grasp to bring back. Cue my serious anxiety attack. I totally understand how people go crazy now and don't want anyone to talk to them or ask them questions leading up to the wedding... I get it. I never thought I'd be "one of those" but I'm really hitting my limit... vent over. hopefully tomorrow will be a better day, because we'll be under 2 months to go!!

 

[Dream426]

This is the "glamorous" part of planning a wedding. I am sorry you have to deal with this. Hopefully it will get better and easier as the wedding gets closer.

 

[tinydancr06]

I'm so sorry everything is so stressfull right now. At least you're only 2 months away! Don't feel like a bridezilla. I would TOTALLY feel the exact same way if plans were getting changed on me. In my mind, EVERYTHING wedding related should be run by the bride first, including date changes!!! If there's nothing you can do about it just do your best to brush it off and know that in the end you are going to have an amazing time regardless. When all is said and done you probably won't even think about this. You're getting SO close! I am so excited for you! Everything will be ok