Perhaps that's a realistic way of living for some, but I can't live that way. When I love someone, I love them faults and all (in this show that would be how I feel towards Jack and William). I can be upset with the people I love at times, but I don't loathe, hate, or despise them. When someone's character is so out of sync with mine that I feel myself utterly loathing them, I don't need to waste my time or theirs trying to make a relationship work (again, in this show that would be Jack's dad or the guy at the weight loss spa that was such a creep to Kate) - thus, no back and forth. I don't love someone one minute and then hate them the next just because they've said or done something I dislike. Nor do I despise someone and then suddenly love them just because they said or did something I don't find abhorrent. Like I said, I don't yet know how I feel about Kevin, and the back and forth of that is not for me. I wish the show would hurry up and make it easy for me to decide.