bigbabyblues
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Mar 25, 2004
As others have said, I don't think there is a right or wrong, everyone is different.
30 was my self-imposed limit. I had my kids at 24 and 26. When I was 27, I was having health problems and my doctor told me if I was going to have another child, it was time to think about it and that likely if I didn't have it in the next two years, I wouldn't be able to. We didn't think we wanted to try to have a third child, after about 2 weeks of thinking I was pregnant due to symptoms of something else, we knew our family was complete with 2 and DH had a vasectomy. My health issues have been resolved, but at 41, there is no way in heck I would want to have another baby now.
My best friend got married right after high school and had her first child at 19; she is now a grandma. I'm nowhere near ready for that, but she is thrilled (we are both 41).
30 was my self-imposed limit. I had my kids at 24 and 26. When I was 27, I was having health problems and my doctor told me if I was going to have another child, it was time to think about it and that likely if I didn't have it in the next two years, I wouldn't be able to. We didn't think we wanted to try to have a third child, after about 2 weeks of thinking I was pregnant due to symptoms of something else, we knew our family was complete with 2 and DH had a vasectomy. My health issues have been resolved, but at 41, there is no way in heck I would want to have another baby now.
My best friend got married right after high school and had her first child at 19; she is now a grandma. I'm nowhere near ready for that, but she is thrilled (we are both 41).