You know....this thread reminds me of the CONSTANT debates on the Cruise Board on the
DCL dress code. DCL requests no shorts, tanks or swimsuits in the dining rooms and on the longer cruises no jeans (with an exception being maybe on Pirate night). Formal attire (tuxes) are optional but that's the only thing that they say IS optional. It definitely states suits for men on formal night & pants suits or dresses for women. But it is inevitable EVERY WEEK that someone asks if they really mean this.
Hello?! It's in writing on the website - it says NO SHORTS yet there are always the ones who want to validate doing what they want regardless of what DCL requests so they always say "it's my vacation and I'll dress the way I want". And then there are those who chime in and say "but it's only a request" it's not REQUIRED".
To me, the fact that they even bother "requesting" makes it pretty clear that's really what they really want & expect as the host. But someone is always going to argue that it's just a technicality in the wording and that they won't throw you overboard if you do what you want.
Sorry to go off-topic but it was just an observation....