I understand you are angry about things, but please don't lump the CM's into everything. They have been treated very poorly by the company and by guests, so it is no wonder they are unhappy. I think people who go to Disney forget the CM's are people and have to work there just to survive. They are people who have trouble affording to live here and can barely make ends meet. They are dealing everyday with "privileged" individuals who can afford a vacation that is a luxury not a necessity. I completely agree with your other issues, but please leave CM's and their attitudes out of the argument.
I will lump them in as they are a very big part of the whole experience. From 1971 - around 2017, CMs had to deal the with same type of guests and still did it with a smile. This new wave of teens/college interns are just not the same. We all have struggles/bad days at work. We cant be rude to coworkers/clients/guests.
2 weeks ago, when going from GF to the Contemporary, the monorail stopped at mk and everyone was asked to get off. We didnt know why, just did it. Security then was looking into every "cabin" (or whetever you call it) After 10 or so minutes, standing next to a CM, I casually asked "Any idea whats going on?" Super casual like I was talking to a friend. She replied "NO" and walked away from me. Whatever...... I then saw another woman approach her and ask if she knew how long it was going to take. The CM replied "If you dont want to wait, you can walk to the Contemporary and get on another monorail". And she walked away from her too. If it were me, I would say "Im sorry I dont, but if I receive information Ill let you know..." or something like that.
I was also dining in DS and mentioned to the waitress that is was one of our guests birthday. She did bring him an ice cream with a candle in it (which I ordered and paid for ahead of time......wasnt looking for freebies), but as she was dashing to another table to take an order (restaurant not busy at all..or capacity was low I should say), she dropped the ice cream in front of him and while still walking mumbled "Happy Birthday". Years ago, the whole restaurant would have been singing. Maybe a mask thing, but 1/2 the staff wasnt wearing one so....??
Years ago too, I would leave my room and say good morning to any staff looking at me. Just being polite. I barely god a smile back, nevermind a "good morning!"
Want to talk about people trying to survive... go on a cruise. Mostly from the Philippines, the nicest friendliest people you could ever meet. Definitley not privileged college kids. Outwardly smiling and happy all the time. Im sure inside they are miserable being away from family/spouses/children, living in subpar conditions and I cant imagine their wage is very good either...but they dont show it. They make sure every guest enjoys their vacation.
Edited to add.....
Not that I like to assume things about people, but "assuming" some CMs Ive encountered are from the LGBTQ community, I will say they are AMAZING with hospitality. Always happy, smiling, singing, dancing, friendly, informative, etc..etc...... wish they could teach some things to the college program kids!