Day Six: Day Before the Wedding!
So it's the day before my wedding and I should be excited, right? Well, I'm not because when I woke up I was completely, totally sick. Runny/stuffy nose, sore throat, coughing, feverish, headache, aches all over, YUCK! I also had sprouted some more pimples on my chin, and when I got up to go look in the mirror I discovered that I had managed to get some random sunburn on my shoulders/chest area DESPITE all the sunscreen I had been spraying on myself. Great. My wedding dress was strapless and there was no way the redness was going to disappear in one day. In a way it was good I was sick because I couldn't focus on anything else -- otherwise I know I would have flipped out about the zits and burn.
I immediately took some Tylenol Cold and then decided against going anywhere to get my nails done -- I really didn't think I could handle it, that's how bad I felt at that point. I decided instead that we would go to Publix near DF's brother's hotel so that I could pick up some nail polish remover, files, and some clear polish.
It was mid-morning by this point (I don't remember what time exactly) so I got a waffle and DF got chicken alfredo. Something new about the
DDP I wasn't aware of is that a juice is included with the entree, so I actually was able to get TWO juices. I got OJ thinking that the vitamin C might help knock my cold out (wishful thinking, I know).
As soon as we got in my car I got a call from Tanis telling me that she was back from vacation and just checking to make sure I was doing ok. Then she told me some GREAT news: She was actually going to be there tomorrow for my wedding!! I was sooo thrilled because I know most Intimate brides get stuck with someone else the day of the wedding, and I was really hoping that wouldn't happen. I really wanted to meet Tanis in person so that I could thank her for all her help with everything, especially with MOH.
After I hung up with her, we practiced driving to DF's brother's hotel because the plan was that he would pick up his bro, SIL, and the kids that night and drive them to Ohana for dinner. That way we would have that car (plus my parent's rental car that they were driving over in) to get everyone home afterwards. We got there much easier this time and then attempted to find the Publix that we swore we saw the other day when we got the marriage license. We ended up driving forever and finally found one on the corner of 535 -- perfect! We could just take that back to DD and get to Pop that way.
After we left Publix we realized that we didn't have a thank you gift for Tanis! I don't know how I forgot so many things even though I thought I was sooo prepared for this trip. I guess everything was just so overwhelming that it didn't matter how many lists and reminders I made!
We were already almost back at DD, so we decided we'd stop at Winn Dixie since they should sell some kind of gift cards. Score! They had the Amex ones which worked out perfectly since we had no idea what she likes or where she shops.
We got back to the room and I sat down to start doing my nails when I realize that I forgot to buy the nail polish remover! I could have screamed. I set DF to work wrapping the parents' and bridal party gifts while I went to Gooding's (more expensive, but slightly closer) to get some. While I was there I picked up some cough drops as well because my throat was getting worse.
I finally got back to the room and got my nails all done and then started writing out the thank you cards that went in the remaining welcome bags. Just as I was finishing up we got a call from DF's other brother saying that he and DF's parents had arrived! DF helped them find their way to Pop and then we grabbed their bags and ran down to the lobby to meet them. It was such a relief to have them there because that meant we were only waiting for MOH and her guest now and they should be here shortly.
We helped them all check in, and after a bit of a miscommunication with DF's brother's room (They thought he still had to pay his whole balance, but I know I paid the whole thing in full! Turns out sometimes things like that don't download to the resort's computer system until the person actually checks in.), we headed off to show them to their rooms. DF's parents were in the 80's and his bro was in the 60's. We drove over to the 80's parking lot and helped his parents with their bags and then I had to go because it was 3:30pm already and Sue was coming to steam my dress at 4pm.
I ran back to the room to take a quick shower and while I was washing my hair, MOH called to tell me they had just landed! I got out of the shower and a couple minutes later Sue showed up with her steaming equipment and the tux corrections from yesterday. While she was steaming I called DF to tell him that his dad and bro needed to try on their tuxes asap so that Sue could get replacements if needed. They wanted to eat first, which I understood, so they went to the food court and then came to pick up the tuxes. They went back to DF's bro's room (he got a king bed with a fridge! with a view of the Hippy Dippy pool!) to try them on and everything was ok except that his pants were too big. Sue said to hold on to them and she would bring new ones in the morning, around 11am. This made me extremely nervous because the wedding was at noon! She said that if worse came to worst she would drop them off with me and I could bring them to him at the WP and he would have to change there. She assured me it would be fine.
There was nowhere else in the room to put my dress, so it had to go in the bathroom, which meant no one could really use the bathroom:
MOH called and said that she and her guest had already checked in and just needed to know where to go. I sent DF down to get them since Sue was still finishing up some stuff and I obviously couldn't go. I looked out the window and saw them headed towards our building -- turns out they were right next door!! Before I got my Disney vacation planner certification, I had used a TA for my reservation and MOH's, so the TA must have mentioned that we were together.
It was so good to see her! She said the plane had gone smoothly -- it was her first time travelling since her accident so it was a huge deal and we weren't really sure how it would work out. She said to me that depending on how the rest of the trip went, she would like to come back for an actual vacation and go to the parks and everything! It was so amazing to hear her so positive because I know it was incredibly difficult for her to come back to a place she had been before, but now everything was different, and she is soooo self-conscious since the accident about how she looks and the wheelchair and everything. Plus the emotions of the wedding and everything... it was just overwhelming for her. I had actually told her that if it was too much for her to do, that I would understand if she didn't come, but she said she would regret it more if she missed it. Sorry for the tangent!
We hung out in her room for a bit and then DF left to go pick up his family. MOH wanted to wash her hair, so I attempted to do that for her and ended up splling a bucket of water alll over the floor! Oops. Then I helped her get changed and we left to go to my room so that her friend could nap a little bit -- he was exhausted. MOH and I looked at some pics and just talked about everything and then my dad called to ask what was going on tomorrow because he and my mom didn't really know. This about made me freak out. I have been going over things with them for the past 6 months, so there is no reason why they shouldn't know what is going on. I tell him we'll discuss it later, hang up, and quickly write out a schedule for them.
I needed to start getting ready, so I brought MOH back next door and then went back to my room where I discovered that the dress I planned to wear didn't fit! It was too big!
You can't really tell from the front, but the back was pretty obvious...
Ugh. Now what? I didn't have any safety pins or anything, so I ended up just wearing a tank top and skirt that I worn a million other times. I only have one bra that will work under this tank, and it doesn't really fit right but I was stuck. I was pretty upset about it but there wasn't really anything I could do. DF gets back with his family and it's about time that I need to leave with MOH and her guest because we are taking the bus to MK and then the monorail to avoid any car transfers for MOH.
SIL and DF's nephew decide to come with us so we all head out and we make it to the Poly just in time. My parents were there already and DF and his family showed up about a second later. He went to check us in while we took some pics.
Me and MOH. You can totally see my bra in this pic. Grr.
DF and his oldest brother
We were seated within a couple minutes and we had the weirdest table arrangement. Instead of a long rectangular table like I was imagining, we had two square tables and a round table on the end.
Continued...