See I see this differently. This is not an adult so it’s not the same. This
Is also a weekday evening. I don’t think it’s a reasonable expectation that a teen would need or ask to bring her BF to such an event. Guess things are just different around here.
Throughout this thread, you seem to have difficulty with the truth that "your way" isn't THE way.
For many 16 year olds, having a boyfriend over for weekday dinner is routine.
In many families, teenagers, especially those as close to college and adulthood as a 16 year old, are treated much closer to the same as adults than still as children.