Thursday morning, we headed over to Franck's for our 9 AM planning session. My mom snapped a few pictures of us on the way in
Me armed with my binder of ideas and swatches!
Brandon looks so grumpy, he almost never smiles in pictures. Which is funny, because he's really silly and fun (remember the cat dj?)
We went inside and met Meri, our planner. To anyone who has Meri, you are in such good hands!! We all loved her. She is really funny and sweet, and she speaks very frankly (which I think we all want in a planner). We started off chatting a bit, and then we got right into the details. Here are the basic things we decided:
Photography- DFTW, the 8 hr package
Videography- DFTW, the "Celebration" (ceremony only, but including arrivals and departures) package
Transportation- 2 limos will shuttle the bridal party around pre-ceremony, then also shuttle guests to the reception.
Tentative- Cinderella's Coach. This one requires a bit of explanation. I never thought I wanted the coach; it was a little too flashy for me, Cinderella wasn't "my" princess, it was a waste of money, etc. Then shortly after joining the Disboards, I stumbled upon the TR of a bride who had the coach. I fell in love and I've had my heart set on it ever since. My mom keeps saying no, but I have a suspicion that she wants to surprise me with it. (To any newcomers who may end up here, you should go read the trip report of Raspberry Bubbles. It's really good!)
Music- I will provide a CD for all ceremony music; We will have an IPOD hook up for the cocktail hour; A DJ will play during the reception (we specifically requested someone who does NOT sound like a sports announcer)
Staged Exit- Nothing for guests to toss or hold. I really don't like the idea of anyone throwing things at me. I told Meri I'm fine with everyone just cheering and clapping.
Alcohol- Open, Premium Bar for both the cocktail hour and reception. We also would like a signature cocktail, but we're waiting to hear back on what they can make. Meri said they can't do any drink (I don't know why).
Reception- We're cutting out a lot of traditional things. No one will be introduced at the reception except for Brandon and I. The only planned dance is the first dance (Brandon & I). We aren't doing any "tosses" (bouquet/garter). Also, we are having open seating. I expected Meri to try to talk me out of it, but she said that was fine. Her suggestion was that we have seating for more than the actual guest count so no groups had to split up if most of the seats happened to be taken. We are also reserving two tables for our immediate families to use if they wish. Brandon and I will be at a sweetheart table.
We are also toying with the idea of a lounge area in the reception -- a couple of couches and arm chairs where people could sit and visit. I love anything that helps the room feel more intimate. Right now we have requested the tulle canopy, but we will see if that stays once the BEO is in. We declined any colored lights or gobos. I also said no to characters, but lately I've been thinking of surprising my guests with Mickey & Minnie -- again, I'm sure the BEO will squash a lot of these ideas. But it's fun to dream, right?
Next we tasted cakes! I was a little worried because I had read about brides not enjoying the samples. However the samples we tasted were delicious! The cake was very moist, and I loved several of the fillings. In the end, we chose:
Bridal cake- Yellow cake with raspberry mousse & fresh raspberries
Groom's cake- Chocolate cake with Bailey's mousse
Next up: pictures inside Franck's and the WP!